Why Mediation?

What is The Difference Between Divorce Litigation & Divorce Mediation?

Unknown length of time for the process, high potential for long, stressful battles over motions, depositions, subpoenas, etc. can last for 12-18 months

Typically very costly due to the inherent inefficiencies of litigation and third party negotiations, costing over $4,000 per person)
Couple abdicates decision-making to a lawyer or judge and loses control of the outcome and the process
Communication between the couple is discouraged by adversarial process
Lawyers and judges are not trained to deal with the emotional aspects of divorce
Settlement may be imposed by a neutral judge who works for the state
Confrontation, bitterness and hostility are often created by the adversarial legal process
Children may be adversely affected by their parents divorce experience
Based on "win-lose" conflict resolution strategy

Informal, structured sessions and planned agenda, plus established time frame for reaching agreement shortens the divorce process to about 2 - 3 months

Mediation will cost far less because of set time frame and usually, lack of need for a trial. Most mediated divorces cost under $1,000 per person.
Couple takes responsibility for their own decisions and equally control the process and the outcome
Communication is the basis on which decisions and agreements are made by the couple
Certified mediators are trained in the emotional aspects of divorce
Couple designs their own settlement with the aide of a neutral mediator who works for them
Cooperation and trust are developed by the nature of the mediation process
Good relationship between parents fosters positive adjustment for their children
Based on "win-win" conflict resolution strategy

Here are some situations where you might need divorce litigation: